Monday, March 31, 2008

EIGHT LIES OF A MOTHER


This story begins when I was a child: I was born poor. Often we
hadn't enough to eat. Whenever we had some food, Mother often gave
me her portion of rice. While she was transferring her rice into my
bowl, she would say "Eat this rice, son! I'm not hungry."
This was Mother's First Lie.

As I grew, Mother gave up her spare time to fish in a river near our
house; she hoped that from the fish she caught, she could give me a
little bit more nutritious food for my growth. Once she had caught
just two fish, she would make fish soup. While I was eating the
soup, mother would sit beside me and eat what was still left on the
bone of the fish I had eaten; My heart was touched when I saw it.
Once I gave the other fish to her on my chopstick but she
immediately refused it and said, "Eat this fish, son! I don't really
like fish."
This was Mother's Second Lie.

Then, in order to fund my education, Mother went to a Match Factory
to bring home some used matchboxes which she filled with fresh
matchsticks. This helped her get some money to cover our needs. One
wintry night I awoke to find Mother filling the matchboxes by
candlelight. So I said, "Mother, go to sleep; it's late: you can
continue working tomorrow morning." Mother smiled and said "Go to
sleep, son! I'm not tired."
This was Mother's Third Lie

When I had to sit my Final Examination, Mother accompanied me. After
dawn, Mother waited for me for hours in the heat of the sun. When
the bell rang, I ran to meet her. Mother embraced me and poured me a
glass of tea that she had prepared in a thermos. The tea was not as
strong as my Mother's love, Seeing Mother covered with perspiration;
I at once gave her my glass and asked her to drink too. Mother said
"Drink, son! I'm not thirsty!;
This was Mother's Fourth Lie.

After Father's death, Mother had to play the role of a single
parent. She held on to her former job; she had to fund our needs
alone. Our family's life was more complicated. We suffered from
starvation. Seeing our family's condition worsening, my kind Uncle
who lived near my house came to help us solve our problems big and
small. Our other neighbors saw that we were poverty stricken so they
often advised my mother to marry again. But Mother refused to
remarry saying "I don't need love."
This was Mother's Fifth Lie.

After I had finished my studies and gotten a job, it was time for my
old Mother to retire but she carried on going to the market every
morning just to sell a few vegetables. I kept sending her money but
she was steadfast and even sent the money back to me. She said, "I
have enough money."
That was Mother's Sixth Lie.

I continued my part-time studies for my Master's Degree. Funded by
the American Corporation for which I worked, I succeeded in my
studies. With a big jump in my salary, I decided to bring Mother to
enjoy life in America but Mother didn't want to bother her son; she
said to me "I'm not used to high living."
That was Mother's Seventh Lie

In her dotage, Mother was attacked by cancer and had to be
hospitalized. Now living far across the ocean, I went home to visit
Mother who was bedridden after an operation. Mother tried to smile
but I was heartbroken because she was so thin and feeble but Mother
said, "Don't cry, son! I'm not in pain."
That was Mother's Eighth Lie.

Telling me this, her eighth lie, she died.
YES, MOTHER WAS AN ANGEL!

M - O - T - H - E - R
"M" is for the Million things she gave me, "O" means Only that she's
growing old, "T" is for the Tears she shed to save me, "H" is for
her Heart of gold, "E" is for her Eyes with love-light shining in
them, "R" means Right, and right she'll always be, Put them all
together, they spell "MOTHER" a word that means the world.

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